Simple Abundance, Minimalist Living & Slow Travel Inspiration

 
 
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Aloha everybody!  We have a couple announcements before we go into our normal Blog Aloha this week that we hope you'll enjoy. If you missed it we were also featured as a guest post over at A Life Set Free this week so pop over take a peak and check out what Marianney is up to. 

We are excited to have just received Ted Hunter's signed copy of Money Smart and we will be reading and reviewing this for you in the next couple of weeks; we're giving you a heads up so you can put your thinking caps on as we will be holding a contest for the best simple living/financial tips, it's Financial Literacy Month so we want to put a great book in someone's hands along with a couple of Hawaiian goodies, so start thinking of your personal favorite smart money/simple living tips (we find that simple living and being smart about money go hand in hand!) and we'll keep you posted as to when to share those, how to vote for your favorite tips and who the winner is. 

We also want to encourage you to go see a movie this weekend that looks to be a great one and was filmed here on Kauai as well as inpired by the true story of a young woman who lives here with her family; the movie is Soul Surfer.  It has a great cast, incredible story and amazing scenery, a can't miss.  Even though there is some dramatic themes it looks safe to take children I would say seven or eight and up, though if you have a particularly mature younger child, or a sensitive older one, you'll have to make the judgement call.  Check out the link we provided for more info.

We’re choosing a little of a Go Slow theme for Blog Aloha this week so we can spot light our 2012 Go Slow Summit mascot; the honu (Hawaiian Green Sea Turtle).  We’ve actually learned a bit from watching these guys in their natural habitat and thought we’d share a few honu life lessons with you for a little Go Slow fun.
 
 
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Editor's Note: This is a guest post from Suzanne Cramer, after you enjoy her great article on decluttering and pocketing a little extra cash for you efforts, head over to A Life Set Free for our guest post on making a difference, we are excited as it's our first guest post on Marianney's great blog!

If you blink too fast you may have missed the subtle signs of spring in the northeast where I live, as the extended forecast is calling for snow showers and the temperature never seems to rise above 40 degrees…brghh!

Even though it’s hard to believe warmer weather will soon be upon us and for me that always means taking stock of closets and creating a new sense of order. Last year I made the life changing decision to attempt a minimalist lifestyle, my closet however did not seem to get the memo. So this year I am taking another stab at scaling back my closet to mirror the changes I have made in other areas.

My new philosophy, “In closets, as in life, less is more.” Every morning I stare blankly at the disaster that is my closet and have come to the realization this is NO excuse for the clutter in my closet, it’s time to make a change!
 
 
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If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant; if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome.  ~Anne Bradstreet

What a wonderful week that finds its ending in what we can't help but think of as Spring's beginning!  I'm not sure that is a quote anywhere else in the world, but it is in ours!  We live on an island, so I'm pretty sure you are all reading this and thinking we couldn't possibly understand the allure of spring...let me first state that having lived most of our lives in areas of the country that experience four true seasons, we identify from that point alone.  More recently we have been learning the subtleties of seasons as they unfold gently on an island.  Winter here has been all about the power of the ocean and the reign of rain, in the plains, mountain regions, along the coast, pretty much everywhere in an equal opportunity sort of display.  We have watched in awe as winter swells come toward different sides of the island creating amazing displays of towering waves and the crescendo of pounding surf against lava rock faces and sandy stretches.  When a winter swell is holding sway you do not venture into the azure water unless you are a veteran, strong surfer, even then you do so at the potential of your own peril.  A favorite activity of snorkeling or swimming our favorite areas for exercise gets put on hold, so we walk the coasts and stand in awe at the sheer power and force that is moving water.  That it stops at all is testimony to a grand design beyond our comprehension.  Each wintry wave seems poised to come ashore with a vengeance and take out all manner of wrath upon beach cottages and palm trees.  We've stood in transfixed shock at these monstrous waves pounding to the stop at our feet, dying as it were due to an unseen, underwater topographical change that renders the all powerful cresting wave to the fluff of seafoam in seconds. 
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Nature at some of its finest, we've loved every second, yet found ourselves longing to get back into our beloved ocean for langorous swims and snorkeling visits with our under the sea buddies.  We are missing the buoyancy of time in salt water, it is a curative experience that you begin to crave.  Your skin grows softer, polished by salt and sand, we all feel a bit younger for our time in these waters, so we watch the weather and surf report with bated breath for the heads up that there has been a *sea change*.  We have discovered you can indeed appreciate the changing seasons here on an island; the ocean ever changing in color and temperament, the various blossoming trees, some more timed it seems for Springtime, some for summer, some delight anew in Fall, others become full bloom at the holidays, such a delight!  All for free!  Life is good, and we are grateful!

 
 
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In case we haven't made our thoughts clear on a subject near to our hearts these days, I thought I would make a statement with a few of our thoughts on the subject and then send you over to our guest post at Care One Community, a great site that helps people make better financial choices and get out of debt so they can live a life their passionate about.  Most of you have gotten to know Travis Pizel who writes about his journey out of debt there and more recently we've introduced Suzanne Cramer to our readers; they both share great information on getting your financial lives in order.  If you're wondering why a blog dedicated to the Go Slow life; slow home and travel lives, following your dreams, and minimalist living is putting an emphasis on anything having to do with money, it's simple.  If money is out of order in your life, if finances and/or the lack of them drive your decisions, if debt is dragging you down at every turn you and your family, your dreams and hopes for a different way of life are going to get back burnered over and again until you deal with what is out of order in your life...money.

We have become bona fide non-consumerists.  You'll find out in our guest post how shockingly little amount of money we have spent since this year began and we'll tell you here and now our goal for 2011 is to remain out of the consumerist lifestyle wherever possible!  We will not be buying furniture, new artwork, craft supplies, rugs, curtains or dishes.  We will not be buying new electronics, a new vehicle, a new mattress or lighting for our home.  We have one basic criteria; if an item such as a piece of clothing (we have a greatly reduced collection of clothing, less than 50 pieces between us) that is necessary to life and business either wears out or becomes too large it will be repaired or tailored if at all physically possible, if it is truly in need of replacement we'll be watching for a steal of deal and will not replace it until we find it.  Jeff will need new running shoes soon as his have hundreds of miles, soon to be cresting over into thousands, we tend to treat those as a consumable, no different than deoderant, toothepaste, etc. as we literally consume the object with its consistent use.  If an item is not a consumable; food, personal care product (and we've learned to limit those) or an item like the running shoes, we will not be purchasing it this year. 

This is in part an exercise in discipline; us over our finances, and in part due to goals we have that are best served by being extremely conscious of our financial expenditures.  In fact we are only very occasionally buying experiences at this time.  We are very grateful to live in an extremely beautiful place with literally tons of free entertainment and activity options available any day of the week.  Sunny? A hike or bike ride, day at the beach or snorkeling will be on tap.  Rainy?  A drive or walk in the rain is an option as are still some hikes.  We are blessed not to have to pay for these activities, we can always choose next year to go out on a sunset cruise or helicopter tour, until we really desire to do so and can comfortably justify the expense we'll be sticking to free experiences.  I bet if you look around your area there are dozens of things you and your family can do to get outside, get active, and/or learn about your area. 

Before I send you off to Care One, I want to clue you in on a few other blogs and people that we enjoy regularly and think you will too:  ExConsumer, if you haven't met Jenny in our comments you need to check out her blog, we really appreciate what she's up to!  Get Rich Slowly, if you have somehow not discovered J.D. Roth's excellent all things financial blog, do not pass go, proceed directly...you get the idea, not to be missed! Ted Hunter's blog Money Smart Online is a great resource for your financial education as is his book Money Smart, which I plan to get my hands on a copy to review for you and then hold a contest to pass along to one of our readers.  Ok, that's all for today so you still have time to check out our guest post, stop in and let us know what you think and poke around some new to you blogs on finances and getting the upper hand over them!  With Aloha!
 
 
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Have you ever noticed that there are two basic personalities in life?  Oh, they take on various other idiosyncrasies, a bend in one direction or another.  They may be reserved or outgoing, talkative or monosyllabic but regardless of the *side issues* of these individuals you’ll see them over and over again.  They are the Dream Builders and the Dream Killers.  Like tends to find like, a quirk of fate? More likely a case of the clichéd birds of a feather flocking together.  Builders recognize other builders; Killers tend to gravitate to their own kind as well.  What gets interesting is when you mix them up a bit and when a killer has no idea he just played hit man for your Dream.

Let me state for the record that we are Dream Builders.  We dream big or go home.  Some of our dreams come to pass; others become fine tuned and find their fruition in a different form than we originally thought they would.  That’s ok by us, had we not dreamed in the first place then what has been realized never would have come to the light of day, its value never explored or appreciated. 

Imagine for a moment what life would be like today if a man named Alexander Graham Bell or Martin Luther King, Jr. had never dreamed.  Go ahead try.  Try and envision this world without these Dreamers having walked our soil and pushed their respective envelopes.  Don’t like how that plays across the screen of your mind?  How about this?  Their dreams may not have had the desired effects had a few Dream Killers not been in their lives.  What?!  That’s right, their particular, oh so necessary to this life dreams may never have got off the ground if they hadn’t been opposed by Dream Killers.  Why is that?  There is something innately incredible about the birth and cultivation of a dream that also fights to gain its toe hold in society, it gains strength, legs to stand on via its struggle for existence.  A Dream Killer, going about his business may ironically enough be the catalyst that propels a Dream Builder on to his or her success.  Talk about pure irony!

 
 
Poipu Waves...
Happy Weekend everyone!  We thought we’d use this week’s blog aloha post to fill you in on some interesting tidbits, apprise you of up and coming goodies and send a shout of aloha out to a few of our favorite people. 

Our first bit of blog aloha blows along a trade wind or two that mostly likely refreshed Elle on her recent vacation in Oahu.  Elle and her hubby spent a couple of weeks, traveling minimalistish style and from the sounds of it had a great time even with the tsunami warning. If you haven’t read her back to blogging post drop by, say aloha and catch up a bit, you’ll enjoy it!  Welcome back to the blogosphere, Elle, you were missed! :)

We also want to send a lil blog aloha Jenny McCutcheon's way: Jenny’s blog, ex-consumer is a great blog if you’ve overlooked it in our blog roll; which reminds us, we’ve had some recent additions to our Aloha Blog Roll, because of said additions we noticed that a few other great blogs that we had previously listed were inadvertently deleted.  We’ll be catching up on Ha Nui Loa style housework and remedying that soon!

Ok, back to Jenny, she was inspired by another blogger, Colleen of 365 less things (a new blog to us, so we’ll be checking that out!) to create a favorites recap post for the week on Fridays.  She’s dubbed it Friday Favorites and I think you’ll enjoy her curated little list of finds of the week.  In fact we were tickled to discover she selected a recent of post of ours as one of her favorites.  Mahalo, Jenny!  We love the idea of discovering new things each week that we haven’t stumbled into ourselves, it’s part of growing to us and I know I’ll be looking forward to her posts each Friday!

 
 
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The last few days saw us still in recovery mode from a strain of the cold virus that must be the most stubborn either of us have ever faced.  We've mused on how we can get spoiled in life and assume that things remain the same.  The sniffles last just so long, a head cold, no big deal. 

Sort of like how we often approach life in general; 'It's just bad weather it will be gone before you know it.' 'Economic downturn? Oh, they only last so long, I can make it between my job and a little credit.'  'Foreclosures?  Don't worry, those don't happen to people like us or people we know.'  'Oh, look another: [earthquake, tsunami, mudslide, flood] in the news (go ahead fill in with any other disaster that keeps cropping up), those poor people, Lord help 'em, there's really nothing we can do...'  Has any one else noticed that life as usual is no longer so much 'as usual'?  Our world seems to be changing, people's responses to this change are as varied as people are themselves, we can stick our head in the sand for a while, but sooner or later we're going to have to talk about some things.  The next couple of paragraphs are from last week's Go Slow subscription, you can infer that we were chewing on how rapidly life can change in light of the recent tsunami, we want to share them with our readers and open a further dialogue...

"We have been lulled to sleep in our comfortable existences, our two car garages, our ‘free to putt around the yard this weekend’ lives.  So many of us still sleepwalk through numbing schedules, living lives of quiet, spirit destroying desperation.  We get out of the house for a change of scenery, we play video games to escape, we read to escape, and we vacate to escape.  What if there was no escape?  If your life irrevocably changed tonight, all you held dear, maybe even the real live flesh and blood you love to hold, was swept away from you, what would you do?  Would you regret that you hadn’t got that project done for your boss, or the promotion that they had been dangling, or that you hadn’t got around to painting the fence?  Would you bemoan that you hadn’t upgraded your vehicle of choice or updated your wardrobe last season?  Would you wish you had gone to a different restaurant last night, or care that you hadn’t made it to the movies because your spouse or one of your kids wasn’t feeling well?  Of course not. What, though, would actually matter to you as you surveyed what remained of your “life”? 

Your life is not the sum total of your things and experiences.  If this week has opened your eyes to nothing but that I hope you see that much with clarity.  For us, we personally strive to live in such a way as to not have regrets.  To the best of our ability be able to say if everything changed in an instant and we lost one another that we each know with every fiber of our being that each of us knows they were loved in this life, unconditionally, unequivocally were loved with the level of love that transcends time and space, that does not come to an end when one of us ceases to take breath on this soil.  Are you loved like that?  You have love to give like that; are you holding back for fear, rejection’s sake?  Leave off that way of life its fruit is of a bitter sort you do not want to stomach."

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Editor's Note: We were just very honored to discover we had been acknowledged today in a post by an amazing blogger; Mark; of the Panamericans; if you have not discovered their deeply profound posts yet, you might just want to head over and bookmark the page, just be prepared to trip around a little in discover mode, not a quick read, but a satisfying one, always.  Dig around a little, you will not be disappointed...common interests, when discovered, open up an incredible dialogue between people of varied backgrounds and locales and builds community in real ways.  Taste and see...

Aloha Fridays; now that's a great institution
if you've never heard of it.  Here in the islands many people work a little harder on the job in the morning, even team working it until Pau (all done) so they can enjoy an aloha Friday.  As in they brilliantly leave work early and kick off their weekend with family and friends, maybe with a happy hour, more often than not with a family barbeque or beachside picnic and bonfire.  Hungry yet?  Us too!  We think it's one of the simplest ways we see the Go Slow life play out.  Work hard then when you pau (pow) you go home! 

How about you?  Do your workweeks bleed right into your weekend?  Are you ready for a change?  What can you choose to do right now that will let you leave work, comfortably pau?  Clear your desk, taking time to note anything you don't want to forget on Monday?  Clear your inbox of email?  How about simply stopping, hanging up the phone and leaving when you should, you have a family waiting whose lives revolve around you.  Just a couple of thoughts for you to chew on... We want to see you really live to enjoy your life and what matters, (Click the previous link and meet another great blogger; shout out to Tisha!) and to do that it might just help a bit for you to go slow.  Which brings a few things to mind before your weekly aloha slideshow...
 
 
Editor's Note: This is March's second guest feature from the Care One Community. We know you'll enjoy Travis' fresh voice on living a simpler life and appreciating what matters.
Luminary
On the Saturday afternoon before Valentine's Day, my wife was out of town, and my daughter and I were going through all of the pictures my wife and I have amassed in our journey through life together... 

We were picking out some favorites to make a slide show for my wife's Valentine's Day present.  As we were flipping through a stack of pictures, we found some prints from an all night cancer walk-a-thon that my wife and I had participated in with some co-workers of hers over ten years ago.  Wedged in between pictures of a group of people wearing tie-dyed shirts was one of the luminaries that lined the path of the walk-a-thon that evening.  This luminary was made in memory of my grandfather who died of prostate cancer in 1991.   I had been explaining to my daughter who the people in the pictures were, and the meaning of the event.  However, when I saw the picture of the luminary with my grandfather's name on it, I stopped mid sentence, choking on my words.  

I remember staying at Grandpa and Grandma's house when I was a boy.  It would usually be a Friday night and Grandpa would make popcorn.  They had an air popper, and he would let me pour the popcorn seeds into the popper.  He didn't use butter, but sprinkled butter flavored popcorn salt over the warm, wonderful smelling snack.  Grandma would open up a 2-liter bottle of 7-Up and pour a cup for both my brother and I.  We would sit on the floor of their living room, watching their black and white television while eating popcorn from the large popcorn bowl.  Food and drink were normally not allowed in the living room, but that rule always seemed to be forgotten when we stayed overnight.  The popcorn tasted better from that bowl.  The soda seemed to taste better from their cups.  Everything seemed special at their house...


 
 
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Aloha & Happy Monday everyone! So what do you think? Is minimalism for everyone? Or is it solely the domain of the young and upwardly mobile, single types?  We think minimalism is as close to one-size-fits-all as actually exists in the world system.  Single? Yes minimalism will change possibly the course of your whole life.  Couple? Minimalism can set you free to follow your dreams and really live now, not when your retirement date arrives.  Families? Yes, we finally feel like we can point families in the direction not just of minimalism in general but with some more specific tips on how to embrace minimalism as a family. 

We are super excited to congratulate Faith Janes of Minimalist At Home
for her launch today of Family-Sized Minimalism.  While not her first book, I think every one digging into will discover a gem. 

I was honored a bit ago when Faith asked me to share a little for her book on how Go Slow applies to minimalism and how minimalism affects schedule (sort of hand in glove actually) I was tickled that she enjoyed what I wrote enough to include it as a section; part of a chapter in the book.  However, I can honestly say I am not endorsing this book because our thoughts are included in its digital pages. We are endorsing Family-Sized Minimalism because we truly feel that Faith has provided more than a few interesting answers on minimalism of every type and style and addressed more than a few questions on topics ranging from going commando; I kid you not; to tackling the real life issues of clutter with kids & toys; and no she doesn't advocate tossing out all of both, though is possibly occasionally tempted!

Here are just a few of the features you'll find, and if you go deep and purchase the upgraded version you will receive even more fantastic info, planning sheets, and organizational tools that may just set your whole household, no matter its size, free!

•   The Less & More Benefits of Minimalism
•   Applying Minimalism to Your Family Schedule

•   Ways to Save Money as a Minimalist Family
•   Dealing with Kids & Their Clutter
•   How to Cope with Roadblocks to Minimalism
•   Advice from 12 Minimalist Families including:

- Joshua Becker from Becoming Minimalist
- Courtney Carver from Be More With Less
- Eric LaForest from Elevated Simplicity
- Tanja Hoagland from Minimalist Packrat
- Rachel Jonat from The Minimalist Mom
- Jurino Ignacio from Jurino.com


Here is what a few of us are saying *officially*:

Finally, a guide to minimalism that everyone can benefit from. This is a book for people with seven bedroom, eight bathroom McMansions and those, like me, living in small urban homes. No matter where you are on your journey, or what your goals are, Faith provides a detailed how-to for tackling clutter in rooms, minds and schedules. Worried about what friends and neighbors will think when you start emptying your house? The benefits to embracing minimalism are listed and discussed in-depth. Thanks for the resources and inspiration! Rachel from The Minimalist Mom

I just finished reading Family-Sized Minimalism and I loved it!  What a great book, and a fantastic down to earth resource for families that are struggling under the burden of “stuff” in their lives. Throughout the book were many golden nuggets of wisdom and practical steps that could be taken immediately. I also really enjoyed reading about the experiences of other minimalist families. After reading Family-Sized Minimalism I am inspired and encouraged to continue on the journey to a more minimalist lifestyle for myself and my family.  Thank you!
Laura from Who Is Laura

I highly recommend Family-Sized Minimalism for its unique voice in the minimalist community.  It is refreshing to hear a family’s take on the minimalist life–a simpler, non-consumerist lifestyle is not the territory of only the young and single.  This lifestyle resonates with families of every size, walk of life, and place in the world. Family-Sized Minimalism will bring more than just the “nuts and bolts” to anyone ready to abandon excess and embrace freedom. It lays out a great plan of attack and features real families in all stages of minimalism. Gena from Hanuiloa [Yup, that's me ;) ]

Faith has rounded up practical, real life suggestions from some of our favorite bloggers as well as from people we are just discovering that have great things to share.  We know you'll benefit whether you are well into your journey or just rolling.  See the thing is to us, if you're really living you're learning, you're growing. We are an affiliate of Minimalist at home, so if you purchase through Ha Nui Loa we'll receive a commission from Faith as thanks for making her product available here.  We've shared before that we are freelancing and always appreciate a way to ethicallly earn a little something to support what we do for free; and you'll note that we keep a carefully curated few affiliate links.  Just as we wouldn't have participated if we hadn't believed in the project; we wouldn't link to it now if we didn't believe it would benefit many of our readers, if not all.  We hope you check Family-Sized Minimalism out, its money back guarantee should alleviate any concerns as to quality. We're digging into the extras and finding it will save us time and money to put these gems to work.  If you are still struggling with certain aspects of making minimalism work for you; still working through the decluttering, or dealing with an unsupportive spouse or reclutter kids this book is for you! 

We hope this review kicks off your week with a new must read to add to your list.  We're working on a post for Tuesday that speaks to some recent events and digs a little deeper.  Stay tuned.

With Aloha,

J&G