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Editors Note: It is with great pleasure we share a powerful post by Raam Dev, we highly recommend checking out the comments to this post via the link at the bottom of this post; enjoy:

Boston Sunset
         What’s the ultimate purpose of life? When you strip away everything, what’s left?

I looked up from my laptop and stared out the window to watch the final five minutes of the sun set over the city of Boston. As often happens, questions began popping into my head. What did it all mean? The sun, the Earth, the beautiful colors in the sky. What was the point of all this?

There has always been a piece of me that felt my purpose for being here on Earth was not going to involve starting a family, but suddenly I found myself wondering if that was really the case. I started imagining what it would be like to get married and have kids.

Was my stubborn persistence and vow to always follow my heart causing me to miss out on something really important? Was starting a family part the purpose for existence? Will my life have been worth living if I don’t make procreation a priority?

After the last sliver of orange disappeared over the horizon, I returned to my laptop and posed the question on Twitter and Facebook: What’s the ultimate purpose of life?

I received several responses but two of them really resonated with me...
Adrienne's Quote
               To be human means to make impossibility synonymous with challenge.

Our human existence gives us incredible potential. We’re capable of creating amazing works of art and literature, constructing cities that house millions of people, and building spaceships to transport ourselves to other planets.

We study our bodies and learn how to rebuild limbs, study our brains and devise ways of learning faster, and push the boundaries of our mental and physical limitations. We’re even capable of recreating reality and extending our world into a dimension that ensures our continued development.

When our desire for connection outgrew our capacity to communicate, we built machines that enabled us to instantaneously share our thoughts with other humans thousands of miles away.

But there must be something more to our existence than solving problems and reshaping our world, right?

There must be something that makes us willing to sweat and endure pain, to deal with hardship and difficulty, to persevere and live on even in the face of inevitable death.

What is that?
J&G Quote
When I think about family, I think about everyone on this planet. When I see a photo of a child begging, I feel a sense of responsibility to ensure that child gets fed. When I see the environment being destroyed by excessive consumption, I feel a responsibility to set an example for a more sustainable lifestyle.

I know my purpose for being here is to fulfill that sense of responsibility and I feel a deep connection to this planet and all the life that exists on it.

Adrienne and Gena helped define what life and love mean to me: The act of giving purpose to our own lives and then walking in empathy towards others with open arms and open hearts, ready to give and serve selflessly without expectation.

If I spend the rest of my life striving to realize my full potential, in pursuit of a vision that I cannot live to see fully realized, will my life have been worth living? I believe the answer is yes, because it would’ve been a life rooted in love andlove is enough.

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Raam: I want to dedicate this post to all the incredible souls with whom I have connected over the past twelve months. There are hundreds of you who have emailed and left comments and thousands more who take the time to read. I feel loved by every single one of you.

When I started writing on this blog almost a decade ago, it was for the sole purpose of having a creative outlet. I had no idea what an amazing part of my life this space would become and how many relationships and connections would be born here.

Thank you for being part of my life. If we haven’t connected yet, leave a comment below and introduce yourself or send me a message and just say hello. I would love to hear from you.

This post is part of the Love Sparks Blogging Festival, an event organized by my friend Jasmine Lamb from All Is Listening.

Jeff & I were humbled and touched to know that our simple heartfelt response resonated with Raam.  It can be easy to talk about love, but putting your money where your mouth is, doing love, choosing love, acting out on love, exemplifying love, putting feet to your love...those are other things entirely. 

Raam is one of those people we know get that, his heart to make a difference, to touch lives, to be a world changer motivates others to join him and will mean he will succeed in his mission. We have that same heart so we ask our readers to join Raam, join us in finding ways to daily make a difference. 

In the upcoming weeks and months we will be having opportunities to partner with others who are making a difference; where even a little "seed" money sowed together with other's will reap a harvest in places in need of water and basic neccessities.  We are choosing a simpler life in large part so that what would normally be spent to live at one consumption level can be invested in lives.  We know it is possible to live a simple life with an abundance mindset, we believe you can make an impact, live your love and values out loud and still enjoy life. 

Are you interested in that kind of life? Drop us a line, leave a comment and let us know in what ways you try to make a difference, And then, if you want to see this message spread take a moment and share on facebook and twitter, that's how great ideas spread and change the world.

 


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Travis @DebtChronicles
02/16/2011 8:18pm

If you ask a hundred people what the meaning of life is, most likely you'll end up with a hundred answers. It's not necessarily that the question is hard to answer, in my opinion it's just not phrased correctly. I think it should be more pointed, "What is the meaning of YOUR life." My thoughts on the meaning of life in the generic sense is simiply, "Enjoy. Find what makes you happy, and DO IT." The application of that statement is different to each and every person on earth. Why do some people toil to map the human genome, while others sit at home drinking beer in their favorite armchair? Why do some people thrive in the hustle and bustle of a large city, while others sell all their stuff and live off the land? Because that's what makes them happy. There are indeed people that are just going through the motions, haven't figured out what floats their boat in life, and are truly unhappy. There should be no judgement here - who am I to say that the guy just sitting in the chair drinking beer is enjoying life any less than the latest Nobel Prize winner? I believe I mentioned in a comment to a previous post that I recently saw a coffee mug that said something to the effect of "I asked the Lord to give me everything so I could enjoy life. He told me I have given you life to enjoy everything." We've all been given this precious gift called life. You're only here for a short time - find out what rocks your soul, and keep doing it.

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Hi Jeff and Gena,

I'm so thrilled that we were able to connect through Raam! Like him, I've spent a lot of time thinking about purpose and meaning in our lives. His simple question, the wisdom you shared, and his profound post, have really helped me to make some connections in my own mind. Like Raam and both of you, I've always felt called to become and do something more, to not only strive to achieve my highest potential, but also to make a valuable contribution.

What always seem to escape me was the "why?" Why do I feel driven to make a difference in the world and in other people's lives? I think the answer was eluding me because I was making it overly complicated, when really, it's very simple. Love.

As I wrote in one of my posts not too long ago, I believe there is a universal stream of love that we can all tap in to. What I think I failed to realize is that love is always calling us back to it. It's that love that is calling for me and driving me forward. Something else I said in that post, which is something you two seem to know all too well, is the easiest way to tap into that love is to SLOW DOWN and SIMPLIFY our lives. :)

I think what you two are doing is simply awesome, and I look forward to hearing more about it! And yes, I'm definitely interested in that kind of life, and in making a difference. In fact, one of my friends (Sandra of Always Well Within) suggested choosing a one-word theme for 2011. I chose "simplify."

To that end, I'm trying to clear my life of both physical and mental clutter in order to make room for what is most important, and to live in a way that is more sustainable for the planet. I'm definitely on board with spreading this message and doing my part to make a difference. Let me know how I can help you! :)

~Adrienne

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02/16/2011 8:41pm

oh wow, i don't even know what to say. these were truly beautiful words and the quotes from gena and adrienne were outstanding! we are all wandering around, wondering what this life is about, most of us wondering "is this all there is?"

why do we want children? maybe it's because we want to experience giving that unconditional love that sometimes we may or may not get from others in our lives.

why do we want to make a difference in others' lives? maybe it's because we want to show our love and don't know how else to show it.

we live in a world where it's "cheesy" or weak or whatever to wear our hearts on our sleeves, so we keep burying our hearts down deeper and deeper and we get jaded and bitter and sad and angry.
how do we get out of that? if only it were so easy to show love to everyone we meet. i'm sure it is for a lot of people, but not so for me. i can feel empathy to others in theory, but when it comes down to face to face, i am jaded towards strangers.

i know i have a capacity to love, but it gets so difficult for me to show it sometimes. why is that??

i guess i am just rambling, but guess i am also discovering some things about my relationship with the word and the concept of love.
thanks for letting me ramble... :)

and in the end, the love you get, is equal to the love you give.... <3

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02/16/2011 8:44pm

ah, just read Adrienne's post and what she said is key:

"I'm trying to clear my life of both physical and mental clutter in order to make room for what is most important, and to live in a way that is more sustainable for the planet."

i'm in the same process, trying to clear things from my life so that i can move forward with my legacy project to change the world. but yet in the meantime, i get so caught up, i forget what my mission is!

maybe i just need to slow down :) thank you all for your wonderful thoughts today!

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02/16/2011 9:19pm

Travis,
We love that you said 'We've all been given this precious gift called life. You're only here for a short time-find out what rocks your soul and keep doing it.' Awesome advice- we've found helping others, inspiring others, living simply with an eye on having a global impact is what motivates and moves us. We have this life to enjoy, share with & impact others. Thanks for sharing your perspective on enjoying life! :)

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02/16/2011 9:46pm

Aloha Adrienne,
It's wonderful to meet you! I've already had a brief chance to check out your blog and I'm looking forward to connecting there too! We could chat all day about the things you shared in your wonderful comment, but I'll suffice to say that when we do slow down and simplify (great annual theme!) we are so much more likely to find our why's and how's. We'll have to connect more soon, stop by anytime to say hi and get the latest!

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02/16/2011 10:04pm

Aloha all! I've got to jump in here and say this is a regular love fest and we think that is so great! We are passionate about establishing a sense of community here as well as building up others like the connections at raamdev.com. To us, when we lend our voice to a powerful message, share the priorities in life to get things done, we are able to impact people's point of view, their paradigm, then their world. Whether you realize it yet, each of you are a part of that. Showing your support and sharing your thoughts here, then heading over to other's communities we share with you at Ha Nui Loa, strengthens the message, begins to subtly shift people's thoughts and patterns then eventually their way of life. Travis is right; we are given this life to enjoy all things, Adrienne is right; we are driven & drawn by Love, Marianney is right; the amount of love you give you get multiplied back to you. We all have amazing lives to live, to share to impact through. We invite you one and all to keep dreaming and living out loud the values and convictions that will truly change this world!

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02/16/2011 10:36pm

Marianney,
I know we've yet to meet in the physical world, yet I already am enjoying our new found online community friendship! You can ramble here anytime! Jeff and I have done a lot of coaching and counseling so we have always endeavored to create a *safe place* for our friends, ohana, clients and now those involved in creating this little online community. I love that you were talking or writing right through your thoughts I could almost see your wheels turning! I know in my life when I have previously withheld the love I knew I could impart I realized later it was due to fear. Fear of people's opinions, fear of my own inadequacies, fear of rejection. A wise man once told me that if I did not have a great deal of respect for an individual I should not fear their opinion or rejection. Once I came to that conclusion I loved easier and feared less. I know we have been hurt tremendously in times past and it always feels so risky to extend love and grace again, the only way we've been able to is to jump right in and just do it. It's not that we don't have boundaries; we do; but we have learned while it feels safer to stay a slightly jaded distance away from those we meet, it's really more dangerous to who we are in the long run. Our best selves are givers, doers, lovers, world changers. Most people find their best selves when they love with abandon and trust more not less. It's risky, but then again anything worthwhile in life is on some level. Now talk about rambling on :) We're so glad you're here!

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02/17/2011 8:05am

A very nice post.

The purpose of life is much simple than many people think: It's to have wonderful experiences that the universe (or God) could never experience any other way.

I hope that's what I'm doing with my life.

Gip

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02/17/2011 11:26am

Gip,
Mahalo for stopping by and taking the time to read and comment! I'm sure you are doing that and more with your life. Each life impacts other lives in immeasurable ways, I bet if you really looked at your life you'd find you have more of an impact than you think!

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02/17/2011 11:44am

wonderful post Raam!
And thanks to Gena and Jeff for the wonderful addition at the end.
It's wonderful to know other people who share the same passion as I do. Reading this post has helped remind myself that I need to keep myself grounded.
Thanks for sharing:)

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02/17/2011 1:17pm

Gena,
"it's really more dangerous to who we are in the long run"
I like this statement. I never thought of it that way. Thank you.

Gip, i like your definition too!

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02/17/2011 5:15pm

Jenny,
So glad to see you at Ha Nui Loa, Jenny! We agree, Raam's post was phenomenal and we only wanted to add some of our thoughts and feelings as an addendum as nothing else was needed at all; that is the wonderful thing though about sharing online, building community; your can't help but spread ideas and make connections that further each others goals.

Was also thinking about what you said about being or needing to be grounded. People's lives are so hectic in this fast paced, tech driven society most of us call home (we even spot it here in the islands proving that slowing down and being grounded is a choice in any environment) that it helps to have the reminders to slow down and value what life priorities really matter.

We each go through seasons where events in life, a move, a scary diagnosis or death in our family creates a forced *pause* where we can take the time, reevaluate, connect with those we love and assess where we are; there's time enough to check back in, log back on and reconnect, I thinks its great to get re-grounded; the adult version of being grounded from going out with olur friends. Sorry to ramble; just think its a needed point, plus its on my mind as I've been doing some writing on it that will show up here and on some other blogs in the next week or so; I'll keep you posted :)

Hugs~Gena

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02/17/2011 6:09pm

@Travis: I absolutely agree that the meaning of life will be different for each person, however I feel there is also a responsibility attached to this life that requires us to do more than "whatever makes us happy".

I think the scenarios you described with someone drinking beer vs someone mapping the human genome are skewed by the reality that our societies have been set up to encourage and perpetuate inequality.

Being born doesn't guarantee that you'll be given all the same opportunities to fulfill whatever your heart desires. Who's to say that beer drinker is only sitting around the couch because his society (by which I'm referring to everyone from family to government) deprived him of the education, encouragement, and the platform for exploring the things that really interested him?

Given a more "equal" set of circumstances, he may very well might have been the person to discover a cure for aids and have enjoyed every single step along the way (perhaps even hating beer altogether).

I guess what I'm trying to say is that we can't use happiness to determine whether someone is really living out the meaning of their life. For the most part, we settle with the circumstances we have and create a picture of the world based on those circumstances, which are reinforced by inequality.

I think we need to look a step past that and identify what connects all of us. If we can agree that there is <em>something</em> that connects all of us, something that we're all part of, then we should also be able to agree that we do all have a collective purpose, one that is not unique to each individual ("purpose of life" here being different than "meaning of life", the meaning being how we each strive for that ultimate purpose).

Thank you so much for the thought-provoking comment! It really made me dig deep and do some thinking!

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02/17/2011 6:11pm

@Adrienne: It's so interesting that we had the same experience with feeling overwhelmed by the question "why?" until the point where we collapsed back and realized it's not complicated at all.

I've thought a lot about why we have so much trouble recognizing the very simple things in life and I've concluded that humans have a natural tendency to overcomplicate stuff. Our ego subconsciously makes the easy stuff more difficult so that it can feel more important and feel better about itself when it eventually comes up with the answer. The problem is, we end up overcomplicating things indefinitely and never finding the answer!

When we just let go of our ego and take a fresh look at things as they are, what's left behind is real, pure, and unaltered.

That stream of love that you mentioned? I believe the Internet helps us tap into it. We're able to bond and connect with people all around the planet, brain to brain, heart to heart, with no ego judging facial expressions or tones in our voices.

The more we remove our egos from the communication, the closer we get to that stream of love that connects us all. :)

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02/17/2011 6:14pm

@Marianney: I felt you wearing your heart on your sleeve in that comment. If we passed each other today on the sidewalk, or bumped into each other in the coffee shop, would I have felt that? Probably not.

That's an unfortunate reality of how we've been conditioned to always be on alert when we're facing a stranger; always suspicious, always judging. But on the Internet, all that fear goes away. You're not scared of me reading your words and feeling your heart on your sleeve.

This is an example of the incredible power we have in our hands, the ability to share thoughts and connect minds; to connect hearts. I think it will be some time before the thousands of years worth of physical conditioning wears off enough that we're able to do the same face to face with strangers, but I'm certain we'll get there.

Until then, I think we should embrace this incredible medium for exploring the higher consciousness that we all share and making a daily effort to bring that love, compassion, and curiosity over into the physical world.

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02/17/2011 6:15pm

@Gip: Thank you, Gip! I believe it's in the process of discovering who we really are that we will find the purpose of our existence. :)

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02/17/2011 6:15pm

@Jenny: Thank you, Jenny! Sharing common threads of knowledge, experience, and understanding has had the biggest impact on my life to date. For so many years (basically all my life up until a few years ago), I felt that I was truly alone and that nobody else out there thought the way I did or came to the same conclusions as me.

Knowing there are so many other out there gives me so much confidence and motivation to continue exploring. :)

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02/18/2011 1:28am

Raam,
We are so glad you had the time to come by and share your thoughts with everyone here. This was truly one of our favorite posts of yours, though we can easily name 3 or 4 more that come in neck and neck or close behind. We too are enjoying the fantastic people we are finding online, the opportunity for connections that may truly never happen on the street as you pointed out to Marianney. We'd have never met Travis in Minnesota with his love of BBQ, Kauai, debt free living & his wife & kids (definitely NOT in that order!) Or Jenny in Chicago living a minimalist life in the city while longing (at least a little) for tropical environs.

We can think of so many others we'd genuinely be blessed to call friends anywhere we've ever lived that we'd have passed on a beach or in a store and not connected over stories and passionate pursuits of a better life. We are very grateful for each and every one of you! We believe one of our purposes in life is to connect people to others and ideas that stretch and challenge them to reach beyond themselves for a far greater good. We're so glad we've connected with you, thanks for being a part of that purpose.

Jeff & Gena

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02/18/2011 2:17pm

Just wanted to comment and say thanks to everyone involved with this thought-provoking post. I wish I could add something, but I'm still digesting it after a couple of days...My brain has gotten quite a workout from all of the posts I have been reading lately & I love it! :)

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02/18/2011 7:04pm

Hi Jeff & Gena,

This is my first visit to your blog (I found you through A Life Set Free) and wow. I'm so glad I stumbled upon this post first thing. It sounds like you two are doing amazing work and really touching the lives of others.

So, what is the purpose of life? I agree with Travis' sediments when he said the question should be rephrased to "What is the purpose of YOUR life." This is so true. Only you can decide what your life's purpose is. And as Gip stated, God will benefit from our experiences, whatever those may be.

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02/18/2011 9:40pm

Elle,

Glad you stopped in and said hello, keep chewing on things, its a wonderful thing to be stretched mentally & emotionally, it makes us more ready for new things, new opportunities; glad your loving it!!

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02/18/2011 10:35pm

Jenny,
I just had a great time checking out your blog! So glad to meet each other through Marianney's Blog...I've got to get back over and check out the rest of the blogs featured on A Life Set Free. We look forward to connecting with you here and over at ExConsumer!
Mahalo!!

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02/19/2011 8:34am

There is a universal energy that pervades everything in existence from this earth to the unfathomable endless universe. This energy connects all. There are no divisions, just as the earth viewed from space shows no boundaries drawn around each and every country. Being a culture of labels, most would like to attach a moniker to this energy...call it something. It's identity is not some noble "word". It's existence is known to us without question or consideration - it just has always "been". On a human level, we are each born happy, as we would call it. Joy is innate in us. But this state is more than a descriptive anonym. It just is what is. It is very, very simple. Over the ages, mankind, proud in his thinking and analyzing abilities has twisted, turned, painted, perverted and muddied this clearness. As the little child is socialized, it is taught that it's instincts are someone's idea of what they are. A fortunate few are allowed to grow and develop without interference of it's intuition. Another group, consorted by the powers that be, "know" that there's something more. Something more than being a slave to soul searing work, more than ignoring the suffering of fellow humans and nature, more than material accumulation. There is realization that the courses of instruction fed to them is so much bullshit. One day they "wake-up". They understand that it's not about us-versus-them; survival of the fittest at all costs. The enlightened clan realizes it's link with all that is. It is also acutely aware of the masses that have become disconnected from their true inherency. One who becomes her/his self at this point cannot help but unclutter their thinking and physical life: or at least realize this is what must be done. Finally, the impetus to reach others with tidings of truth and the inescapable instinct of compassion and love for all creatures, great and small.

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02/20/2011 12:54pm

Hi Jeff and Gena,

Thanks for reminding me to take a minute today to remember what is really important. For me the meaning of life is definitely the relationships I have with other people. I love how you describe family - not just as your immediate family, but that we all are connected to so many others.

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02/20/2011 1:58pm

Ricky,
We are delighted that you stopped by and shared the truth that is obviously resonating within you. We have definitely discovered a growing happiness & joy as we have stripped away the excess that society tells us is necessary for experiencing satisfaction & contentment.

I have found joy in my faith, my sharing a piece of bread with a child in Kenya, in connecting with others of like mind and heart, when I took the time to be fully present in the moment-soaking up unadulterated joy at the beach just taking in the beauty of creation; each wave a revelation of pure light & form. Joy, happiness are for the taking to those who take the time to look around and wake up to the beauty in others, in communicating with those we could just brush by, in the simplicity of a beautiful sunrise or set, in appreciation for the singular, stunning blossom that is but for the day. It seems that you understand that well!

Thank you for sharing your thoughts; I enjoyed a peek at your blog; you have much to share!

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02/20/2011 2:10pm

Karla,
Aloha to you and your simpler living family! I don't know how you found us but we're tickled you did! I just found out you live in Maine; one of our favorite coastal states! We loved walking & hiking around the Marginal Way and visiting Wells, Ogunquit, other little seaside towns.

I think its wonderful that you are sharing your family's journey along the simpler living path. For us its been an adventure as we have redefined what satisfies us, what brings us joy, what we want our lives to stand for. We do feel that we are growing sort of an extended Ohana (family in Hawaiian) we are so grateful for that and genuinely enjoy getting to know others walking out the same path. We may be at different points along the way, but we learn from one another and find strength and encouragement knowing we can pour our heart out and someone out there will understand. This week has brought about some wonderful new connections, we look forward to those growing!

Mahalo for stopping by! :)




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02/21/2011 9:03am

Fab post Raam Dev, and thanks to Gena and Jeff for posting. It is indeed a huge question and one that offers profound insight when contemplated for one's self. Often for me it's been an intangible feeling, a knowingness so to speak that if I am quiet and I listen I will always know what my meaning in life is. I guess that's what many call following your heart. But I do believe it needs to be done with awareness and a little bit of faith. Lovely post again, thanks.

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02/21/2011 10:31am

@Ricky: That was so well articulated and beautifully put! I think once we get a taste of that joy -- a taste of what's real -- there's no going back. I certainly felt in the past few years a lot of the things you described and I'm a changed human being because of it.

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02/21/2011 10:36am

@Irene: Thank you, Irene! Quieting our life and just listening to what IS: that's an incredible way to live, one that I strive for every day. I believe intuition is what happens when we quiet our mind and listen to what the universe is telling us. It's a guiding hand, a compass, a hint towards the optimal path. It tells us the direction but we each need to experience and figure out how to get there for ourselves.

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03/01/2011 4:10pm

I first learned of the phrase "love walk" from you and Jeff. Not only was that such an awesome term to describe what a believer in Christ should allow Him to do in us, but I was honored and privileged to actually watch it happen in your lives everyday through business and personal relationships. I miss you both so much...(warning, I'm going to get a bit sappy) but you both have touched Keith and I's lives in ways that are unforgettable and eternal. Keep sharing yourselves w/ us and others.

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03/01/2011 6:53pm

Annette,

It touches us to no end that we have had an impact on you guys as you have on our lives. We hope to continue in that thread for years to come, thanks for popping in and sharing your aloha here as well, it made our day to get this "love" note from such wonderful friends. Hugs from Hawaii to one and all there! :)

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